It’s not fair

Something happened when the 2nd was born. Its not fair came to this world
It’s a little verbal monster that shows up in crucial moment in our daily routine -
It’s not fair to brush her teeth and its not fair not getting dessert because she is not hungry anymore (for our It’s not fair that I ask her to take her "motzez" (binky) out when she is talking and of course it’s not fair that she has to go to sleep.
- Abba I’m talking I’m talking now
I have a tendency to cut people off in a conversation anther the excuse that it’s a dialog not monologue (tell that to the wify and you'll feel thunder in all its glory) - but I can’t do it with my 1st one. It usually happens when she needs to do something that she doesn’t like and she wants to give her piece and u know she is about to say its not fair, so u try and cut her but then comes the guilt sentence
– Abba I’m not done talking/ abba I’m talking now
And do I want to be known years later, when she'll be in therapy (of course she will) to be the one why she is afraid to talk? (I’m not worried, my place in the future is promised, I know ill have my share in her future therapy)
The same concept of its not fair but its being used when me and the wify disagree and she takes one of the sides In time either I’ll go crazy (living with 3 female creatures) or I’ll be the dude

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