Endless possibilities, one weekend for the rest of my life (part 1)

I waited because 3 weeks ago I was still in the honeymoon period and I wanted to see if it works,

if outside the ivy tower, the perspective is life changing and not just another used dogma to me.

And it works amazingly. What the fuck is he talking about? 4 months ago a friend of mine from

Israel came to visit. He asked me if I heard about the landmark forum. I heard something but

I didn’t know anyone who did it. He did and it changed his life completely. He is a serious guy my friend.

Not one who will go to therapy but if he sees prove of theory; he might try it - especially if it did well.

They don’t advertise because people will never come if they’ll tell then what the weekend can do for them.

If you think that you are open minded see your response to the following "AD" -

"for only $500 you can have endless possibilities in your life" -

would you go to something like that?

I know I wouldn’t. Why did I go?

Because I’m not afraid of the unknown

Because I want to live everyday to its fullest

Because I want to be a better person better dad better friend and husband

Because I love life

I know I sound like a cult/brainwash poster boy but the feeling inside is something I cannot argue with.

What is it? It’s a new way to look at life. It has a bit of Buddhism, Taoism, Pacifism and a lot of love

to human beings wherever and who ever they are. 120 people sitting in one room and share

themselves (if they want to) to the bone. If you listen to the pain and close your eyes, you’ll hear

a group of 3-5 years old kids that express pain, anger, disappointment, love, jealousy

and a lot of emotions,

towards themselves and their parents. We let an angry 5 year old to run every decision in our life.

We let the past dictate our future and acting like crazy by trying to change ourselves, because you can’t.

A change as you know it is not possible because every change has the layers of the past, and until we

get rid of the past we can’t have a real clean future filled with endless possibilities. I’ll gives you an example

from my life. I grew up in a very small place. When I was in 3rd grade, new kids came to our school.

I came all exited telling my dad that I have new friends. My dad said that “there are friends and there Are friends” –

I heard – “there is no such things as friends”. Ever since then every time I encountered an unsuccessful

social event were I found my self at a tight spot, or not in my comfort zone – I accused him and what he told me.

I have put myself in situations When failure was the only option and I accused him instead of taking responsibility.

Now, I can see you there nodding and saying “Daaaa, you needed a brainwash, cult, peer pressure

to know all of that ?” well I don’t think so. I think it was the right timing for being open, because

you always win the game you play.

More to come

So you want to have kids !!!!!

Saw it on Daddytypes and I had to show it

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My amazing little one - Happy 4th Bday

Four years ago my life changed. From being a me me me person I have started to evolve into being a father.

You bring the good in me. One of the psychologists I went to told me that I’m raising little me.

You are much much better.

You are smart, funny, sharp, good soul, opinionated, stubborn, loving, incredible big sister,

cuddling, giving, warm, and amazing little girl.

I love your little rebellious soul that at times can drive me crazy. For the last 4 years,

you have become my favorite topic conversation. Looking at how much you have grown makes me proud

and sad at the same time. Proud because of whom you are, and sad because you grow so fast and soon:

- I wouldn’t brush your teeth (and fight with u about it)

- you will not call me to wipe your butt

- you will learn to be by yourself

- you will close the door (now it’s cute)

And much more that can’t even imagine.

I want to thank you for:

- being my amazing daughter

- putting things at prospective

- being my safe haven

- letting me take endless pics of you

- teaching me how to look and get life

ani ohev otach

Being a stay home mom

it really is a hard job Yesterday I stayed home.

It’s not the first time I work from home but yesterday it was more about taking care

of our 4 months old then it was about work. Wify needed some time for her self to

charge batteries. Living in a foreign country made us face reality that we are the only

one who are there to help us. Most of our friends are in the same situation.

I have to admit that it’s hard. Harder then I thought. She needs attention, affection,

talking to her, hugging, amusing, loving and I thought I am all that but yesterday

I realized how hard it is to keep it all day long and not only for the 2 hours I see her

everyday when I come from work and give her bath while talking to my 1st one,

while trying to do the impossible and give them my full attention. Of course I did just that.

I was only able to do just that. No cleaning, no laundry, no errands. Of course when I come

home from work - its clean, organized, food is ready, laundry is in the process and more

and more, so glory halleluiah to my amazing wife

and kudos to all of the stay

home mums (and dads).

Take off your pants - It’s really fucked up

I'm at my work then the wify calls and said that she can't wait and she has to tell me what

happened today at the daycare.

My 1st one which is almost 4 has been wearing the same (not everyday) pants.

It’s by Juicy, and on the back of the pants AKA her ass it say "Juicy"

The headmaster came in today to her class and told her teacher to take it off my girl

and to put her other pants.

WHAT THE FUCK ? HOW CRAZY IS THIS COUNTRY ?

of course no explain to my 1st one what happend, only now she thinks that something is wrong

with her, that she did something wrong.

Of course I called her and didn't get her reaction yet but when I do …..

I wonder what she is going to say in her defence, because I was thinking to tell her

that I want her to check every kid’s clothes label, if it was made in Germany to take it off because

I'm offended as a Jew.

CRAZY HA ?

Living in NY, complaining about too many people in the street and then -

Seeing this and it all shrinks

Over population

My Girl feels much much better - thank you all

She is doing much much better.

We went to our doctor and she said that her lunges were flooded with phlegm,

and that was what prevented her from sleeping or breathing well. Since yesterday we have been using

inhaling machine enabling her to breath much better and it works.

it breakes your heart seeing your child so helpless.

Thank you all for the advices. I think we'll keep on with the shower/sauna.

She is Congested - any quick suggestions ?

My 2nd is 4 months old.

She is congested - any suggestions ? We don't like that thing that you put in their nose.

Have a great day and thank you in advance

When do you talk about money

She is almost 4 and being that her bday is coming this month (i see a mushy post in my future) the preparations got into full gear.

There is nothing like getting presents (maybe sex but this also a present so…) and she has a list of them.

We are using the dvr (like tivo) to watch tv so we don’t see commercials, however she loves watching kids commercials.

Before it used to be "hey Abba look its so pretty" an more along this line but a few weeks ago she saw

THE DOLL - she talks, she sings and most important she calls her Mommy - Being big sister - they hit the spot.

if you have girls you’ll recognize the following conversation (which occurs every month/ every visit to target/disney store) -

1st one - you have to see this

(it starts slowly)

Me - yes buba (honey, what now)

1st one - its ariel/jasmin/cinderrela/aurora/… New Dress/shoes/earings…

Me - wow its beautiful (i know what’s coming)

1st one - can you buy the new ariel/jasmin/cinderrela/aurora/… New Dress/shoes/earings… ???

Me - but you already have that (resistence is futal)

1st one - abba, no I don’t

And it goes on and on and on and …

the exact conversation happened while we were in merchandise land.

Now, am I supposed to explain to her about the difference in currency that a dress

of a princess (pick you favorite) costs exactly half at toys r us ?

Do you give up ?

Why can't she have every toy she wants ? because life is not fair ? that’s horrible lesson in life

which I'm not going to put in her mind.

Help me think for a second beyond the box of regular sentences and excuses we come up with.

Anyone ?

New boss is running our house

Its not fair.

Something happened when the 2nd was born. Its not fair came to this world.

Its a little verbal monster, that shows up in crucial moment in our daily routine.

Its not fair to brush her teeth and its not fair not getting dessert because she is not hungry anymore

(for our food). Its not fair that I ask her to take her "motzez" (Binky) out when she is talking and

of course its not fair that she has to go to sleep. - abba I’m talking I’m talking now I have a tendency

to cut people off in a conversation anther the excuse that it’s a dialog not monolog

(tell that to the wify and you'll feel thunder in all its glory) - but I can’t do it with my 1st one.

It usually happens when she needs to do something that she doesn’t like and she wants to

give her piece and u know she is about to say its not fair, so u try and cut her but then comes the

guilt sentence - abba I’m not done talking/ abba I’m talking now And do I want to be known years later,

when she'll be in therapy ( of course she will) to be the one why she is afraid to talk ? (im not worried,

my place in the ffuture is promised, I know ill have my share in her future therapy)

- Abba, stop it (tafsik et ze) the same concept of its not fair but its being used when me and the wify

disagree and she takes one of the sides.

In time either ill go crazy (living with 3 female cretures) or ill be known as the dude